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July 23, 2010

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Mike Henry Sr.

To create a culture where it's OK to speak up:
If you're the leader, you must listen and act. Create ways to gather information around silos and organizational channels. And act on what you learn.

If you're not in charge, the best thing you can do is learn effective ways to speak up. If you're concerned about reprisal, get another job!

Isn't it terrible that some business unit leaders, directors and managers managed to protect their image while killing so many people and creating such a horrible travesty.

Jennifer Tucker

Agree with the "listen and act" above. Three others based on experiences in cultures of fear: (1) Know your body language and facial expressions: Words are only part of your message - your physical messages send strong signals about how you really feel. If you are a leader, get feedback on physical reactions from people you trust. (2) Avoid deferred gotcha's - Just this week, I was in a meeting where the leader used a harsh joke to belittle feedback from the previous meeting... Last week, he had asked for open feedback on an issue and people gave it. This week, they regretted it. The boss showed his clear contempt for last week's ideas by referencing them in another context - everyone knew what he was referring to, and last week's brave souls will be unlikely to ever share ideas again. Very sad and destructive. (3) Related, watch the use of humor. Teasing can easily become sniping - often, I hear it excused as "we are a family so it's OK," but often, the people receiving it are privately trained to be more defensive, and are less likely to show vulnerability. That hurts - the people, and the organization.

Scott Eblin

Thanks for the great observations Mike and Jenny. One of the common themes I take from your comments is accountability. We need to be accountable for our own words and actions along with doing what we can to influence positive action from others.

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